AN UPDATE about John
COPIED FROM VPF:
(you can read MUCH more about John at VPF)
Okay folks, I just got off the phone with John and here's the entire gib of the situation:
1. John's landlord HAD TO change the phone service. He's not doing this to ruin John or to tick off anyone. This was some kind of LEGAL action of some kind against the landlord or something. WIERD yes, but it's all John would tell me and it's all he could tell me. I respect these wishes.
2. As far as returning, John is thrilled he is able to read and his wieght has dropped considerably. His health has also gotten 50% better since he has stayed away from the computer. His doctor has confirmed this. Seems John is feeling better than ever - even his circulation in his legs and etc. has done A LOT better. John has hinted that he is really doing much better by not returning. Now, don't let this bother you folks. I have asked him to think it over before he makes any "rash" decisions. He said he would think it over.
3. There are things that makes John NOT want to come back. I am not going to discuss this as most folks KNOW what they are. Think long and hard about it. I've been posting about this as of recent and have had no feedback about it except for at TMOF. To those folks, thank you for the posts and I hope we can talk more about it. There's also MORE problems that makes John not want to come back. I can't discuss these either as it wouldn't be right to say anything about it. I, as his friend COMPLETELY AGREE with John and what he has said to me.
4. Now, John has wiped out his system. Seems his ISP and program have been removed BUT this is not effecting his decision to return. We'll have to wait and see what he will choose. If he decides to return, we MAY be able to help him perhaps. He has kept all th flipperless tables from VP for his own enjoyment. He loves them very much, so he's not bored.
5. John has brought up so many VALID points as to why he shouldn't return. I agree with him on everything we talked about and much of it is pretty disturbing to say the least. I could go on and on about all the BS the VP community in a whole has gone through and is still going through but I won't. If folks think about it they can figure it all out. None of these points John has given me are quite positive but he says folks can change that. I'll wait and see if that happens. Of course John is waiting for me to see that happen.
Well, that about does it. John is catching up on his reading, his health is doing very good and he seems in high spirits about what happened for the fact of the matter is that John DID spend TOO MUCH time online. He had too many responsabilities all at once - he really did. We'll have to wait and see what his response is when he gets my letter and writes back to me.
He does have the right to his own phone line, which his landlord is providing in a single room of the house. Of course John's machine cannot be connected to this line. So, if he decides to return maybe we can do something to ease the "burden" of what he is going through.
Will / druadic